By Joanne Donaldson
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August 27, 2025
Even now, in the digitally-connected world of 2025, people lower their voices to whispers when discussing their brushes with the unexplained, their eyes darting nervously to gauge reactions, afraid of the smirks and raised eyebrows that so often follow. These self-proclaimed “experts” clutch their electromagnetic meters and infrared cameras like shields, yet most have never felt the icy breath of something unseen against the back of their neck at 3 AM. How can anyone claim expertise in shadows that defy physical laws or whispers that emerge from empty rooms? The time has come to unveil the full tapestry of what happened within those Victorian walls—not just to my family, but to me. Perhaps my words will embolden others whose hands still tremble when recounting what science cannot explain. Before you judge the impossible things I’m about to describe, remember that terror leaves unique fingerprints on each witness it touches. Our story begins in 1970s Harborne, where Victorian facades marked it as one of Birmingham’s more genteel and affluent neighbourhoods. My childhood unfolded within a terraced house that seemed to stretch endlessly upward—four floors of creaking floorboards, ornate mouldings, and windows that caught the afternoon light. Five bedrooms accommodated our bustling family of eight, with enough nooks and crannies left over for hide-and-seek tournaments that could last for hours. Life flowed peacefully through those high-ceilinged rooms until the day my father, armed with enthusiasm and a sledgehammer, decided our home needed “improving.” The Invitation The prying bar in Dad’s hand froze mid-leverage against the skirting board when something fluttered to the floor—a small card, yellowed with age. It was an invitation to a boys’ school function from the Edwardian era, its elegant script faded but still legible. Birmingham’s Art Gallery and Museum would later add it to their collection. I’ve often wondered: was finding that card a catalyst to this haunting, or had Dad’s hammering and prying already awakened them from their eternal slumber? Something stirred within its walls, and just like a ‘Pandora’s Box’ once opened, chaos ensued. A heaviness settled over the house. Mom and my sisters noticed it first—a prickling awareness that made them glance over their shoulders when alone. My eldest sister initially found comfort in it, believing Granddad’s spirit had come to watch over us. That illusion shattered when her boyfriend Luke visited on army leave. Sitting together in the front parlour one evening, my sister whispered that she could feel Granddad nearby. Luke went pale. “That’s not your grandfather,” he said, his eyes fixed on the corner where an elderly woman stood watching them, her gaze unnervingly steady. After that night, my sister couldn’t shake the feeling of being observed by unfamiliar eyes. And soon enough, we learned our uninvited guest wasn’t alone. Escalating Phenomena Ghostly voices and shadows began appearing frequently, accompanied by the eerie sounds of footsteps and shuffling feet. A wastepaper bin inexplicably caught fire in the front parlour, and the strong scent of roses often filled the air, even though there were no flowers in the house. Our once-beautiful home took on an ominous and intimidating presence, growing more unbearable as time went on. One day, Mom was upstairs in the small front bedroom where my two brothers slept. She was on a step ladder scraping old wallpaper when she suddenly heard footsteps rustling through the discarded paper on the floor. Terrified, she froze and continued scraping, calling out to my sister Cora for help. When Cora arrived, she asked what Mom needed, but before Mom could answer, Cora heard the same shuffling footsteps approaching her. Frozen in place, she turned toward the sound and demanded, “Who are you? What do you want?” There was no reply, only silence. Realizing they needed to leave, Cora quickly helped Mom down, and they hurried out of the room and down the stairs. Unseen hands often touched my siblings—one sister was slapped across the face while sleeping, and others got pinched on their bottoms in the galley kitchen. At first, they blamed each other, but their fear and vulnerability soon revealed the truth. Laughter disappeared, and everything became serious as the activity escalated daily. The spirits were now actively interacting with us in a very real and personal way. We’d often have the unsettling feeling of being watched while getting undressed for bed. It became more pronounced as time went on and we felt so threatened and helpless in its presence. It felt perverse and sexual with its intent. Apparitions and Witnesses Fortunately, visitors to our home began experiencing phenomena that validated our own encounters. Our house had only one bathroom, located downstairs at the back of the property. The walk to reach it was long enough on its own, but it felt even longer when you had the unnerving sense that you were not alone. One night, my brother Henry needed to use the bathroom, so he hurried downstairs. To his horror, in the corner of the room, he saw a dark shadow—a silhouette of a man dressed in a long cloak and a hat. Terrified, he abandoned his mission and ran straight back upstairs. My mother referred to this faceless spectre as the “Sandeman,” as he bore a striking resemblance to the figure on old bottles of port. Only now do I realise that this visitor might have been the infamous “Hat Man,” whose sightings have been reported worldwide. Occasionally, two of my sisters would wake up in the morning with unexplained scratches on their faces, despite neither of them having long nails. My mother often saw an elderly woman passing by the fireplace in the master bedroom. This woman, described as having grey hair tied back into a bun and wearing a long brown sackcloth dress, never acknowledged my mother but simply carried on with her activities. One particularly chilling incident occurred while my mother was recuperating in bed with laryngitis. She heard the bedroom door open and footsteps entering the room. Assuming it was my father checking on her, she waited to hear his voice, but there was only silence. Suddenly, she felt someone sit down on the bottom of the bed. Pulling the covers up around her face, she cautiously sat up to see who was there. It was not my father. Instead, it was the same man my brother Henry had seen—the figure in the hat and cape. He stared directly at her and, in a commanding tone, said, “Talk, you can talk, now talk!” before vanishing into thin air. My mother was left shaken and utterly horrified. Poltergeist Activity A vivid memory I have is standing in the doorway of the kitchen, watching my mom at the sink washing some spotted plastic beakers that my younger brother Jack and I had used earlier. She placed my beaker on the draining board to dry, and suddenly, it rose several inches, hovered briefly, and then plummeted to the floor. Mom looked at me with a worried expression but said nothing, even though she had seen it too. I suppose she didn’t want to frighten me, as I was young and thought it was some kind of magic trick—if only that had been true. Things began to move on their own. Items would vanish and reappear in strange places. The sugar bowl disappeared several times, only to later be found full of sugar on the attic landing. Mom always blamed our dog Elsa, claiming she went into the kitchen, picked up the sugar bowl, and carried it up two flights of stairs without spilling a single grain—quite the feat, right? While Elsa was an intelligent dog, she certainly wasn’t capable of that! It became evident that we were dealing with poltergeist activity. One day, we left the house, leaving Elsa, our German Shepherd, alone. When we returned, we were horrified to see her standing on a small ledge outside one of the front bedroom windows. She had climbed out, but why? She had never done anything like that before. We assumed something had frightened her. After that, she refused to stay downstairs alone at night. Instead, she would escape from the back lounge and run up two flights of stairs to sleep in my sister’s room—clearly, the dog was distressed. Certain areas of the house felt worse than others, but the ominous atmosphere permeated every room, including the dark, damp cellar. The sensation was indescribably dreadful, and the house seemed perpetually dim, even on sunny days. The disturbances continued, and one night it was agreed that an informal investigation or vigil should take place in a desperate effort to understand what was happening within our home. Night of the Vigil It was decided that the most effective way to conduct the vigil would be for everyone to split into pairs and explore all floors, regrouping in the back room on the ground floor every fifteen minutes or so to share their experiences—and the night certainly did not disappoint! On the attic landing, there was a loose floorboard that made a distinct “clunk” sound whenever it was stepped on. During the vigil, my nan decided to head to the upper floor, but as she began climbing the wooden stairs to the attic, she and those below heard the unmistakable “clunk” of the floorboard—yet no one was on that floor at the time. My sister Cora, who stayed in the back lounge, suddenly heard footsteps approaching from the stairs leading to the room where she sat alone. Startled, she panicked and screamed for help. My cousin, who reached her first, noticed a strange light hovering above her head. The light then moved quickly toward him, causing him to shake uncontrollably, almost as if afflicted by Parkinson’s disease—something that would later prove significant. Another eerie encounter happened to my other sister, in the same back room. While the others were exploring different parts of the house, Denise sat facing the open staircase. She suddenly saw an apparition of an arm gripping the handrail and descending the stairs. Strangely, there was nothing else attached to it—no body, nothing! The arm dissolved into thin air as it neared the bottom step. Later that evening, my uncle arrived to pick up my aunt, who was part of the investigative group. A calm, rational, no-nonsense man, he was asked to go to the attic rooms alone to see if anything unusual would happen to him. Confidently, he accepted the challenge, convinced we were all being ridiculous. But as he reached the attic, we suddenly heard a commotion, followed by urgent, panicked thumping. Moments later, he came racing down to the lower floor where everyone had gathered, looking shaken and exclaiming, “don’t ever ask me to go up there again!” With that, he stormed off and stood across the road from the house, where his car was parked. My aunt followed him out, and they both stood there, staring back at the house. He asked if she was ready to leave with him, but she refused. Looking at the house, she said she needed to stay. My uncle never revealed what had frightened him so deeply that night, causing him to act so out of character. To this day, I cannot say what it was. However, in all those years, he never spoke of the incident again and never once stepped foot back into that house. The vigil stretched on through the night, marked by numerous unexplainable occurrences. At one point, disembodied voices filled the air—talking, laughing, as though at a lively party. The chatter lasted several minutes and was heard by multiple people, yet no one could determine where the voices were coming from. The night was fraught with tension, as these ghosts were anything but shy. They seemed to revel in having an audience to “play” with. It was unnerving, and everyone involved felt a constant knot of sickness in their stomachs. At times, the house would fall eerily silent, only to erupt with activity again for no discernible reason. The vigil had lasted for hours, and soon dawn was approaching. During the daylight, we typically felt less vulnerable, but that sense of security would soon vanish. Everywhere we went, the sensation of being watched loomed over us—a horrifying feeling of something unseen lurking just behind, its breath almost tangible. The air felt oppressive, as though it sought to suffocate and consume us entirely. One of my siblings described it as if something clung to her back; she dreaded descending the stairs, fearing it might push her down. The fear was palpable and relentless, growing stronger with each passing moment, until it felt as though it had completely seized control. The Mystery of the Ring and Catherine Due to the house’s large size, my parents decided to rent out the front room to a lodger. Initially, he was very pleased with his new accommodation, but his happiness was short-lived when he encountered something unsettling. He never disclosed what he had seen, only that he could no longer stay there, leaving the matter shrouded in mystery. For her twelfth birthday, Cora received a gold and onyx signet ring from my parents, engraved with her initial, the letter C. She cherished the ring and always kept it safe when not wearing it. By this time, she had owned the ring for six years. One day, however, she discovered the ring was missing. Despite searching thoroughly, she could not find it. Our parents asked if any of us had seen it, but we all denied any knowledge of its whereabouts. Months went by, and the ring remained lost. Eventually, we gave up hope of finding it, assuming it was gone forever. Then, in an unexpected turn of events, the ring reappeared. One morning, Cora entered the bathroom and noticed something shiny in the middle of the floor. Upon closer inspection, she realized it was her missing signet ring, the same one that had been gone for months. Strangely, the letter C on the ring would later be associated with one of the apparitions. The peculiar occurrences in the house only escalated, creating an atmosphere of pervasive negativity. The situation became so dire that my mother sought assistance from the church, but they refused to get involved, leaving us to face the strange phenomena on our own. Eventually, my mother consulted a nearby neighbour. She described the woman she had seen roaming the landings and the master bedroom, detailing her facial features, hair, and clothing. The neighbour identified the woman as Catherine, a former resident who had lived in the house for many years and had once rented out the rooms to others. Catherine had suffered with Parkinson’s disease and had passed away in the house many years earlier. A Malicious Turn It seemed as though every day brought a new unexplained event. I recall one instance when my father retrieved a box from the cellar to sort through its contents. Among the items, he found an old starter handle for a car. Deciding to keep it, he tossed it up the stairs to the first-floor landing for storage. However, as the handle reached the landing, it inexplicably reversed direction like a boomerang, narrowly missing my father before continuing its path. It then veered under the staircase toward a small sideboard where a figurine of a man was displayed. The handle struck the ornament with precision, decapitating its head. While it could have been a bizarre coincidence, given the peculiar nature of the house, it felt deliberate—almost like a warning. One evening, my sister Cora was in bed, not yet sleepy, and decided to read a book. As she read, she suddenly heard a whispering voice from the landing. The voice called her name, “Cora, Cora,” twice. Believing it to be our mother speaking softly to avoid waking the other children, she replied, “Yes, what is it?” But there was no response, only an unsettling silence. Thinking perhaps our mother hadn’t heard her, she got out of bed and opened the door, only to find no one there. In fact, everyone else was sound asleep. Something had called her by name, but how could that be? We had a lovely little budgie named Joey, a beautiful bright blue bird kept in a cage in the front room. I never realized how intelligent birds like him could be; he was learning to talk and would occasionally greet us with a cheerful “hello!” whenever we entered the room. One evening, my sister’s friend, who was staying with us for the weekend, went into the front room and discovered Joey lying motionless at the bottom of his cage. The room was filled with the distinct smell of gas—someone or something had turned the knob on the gas fire without lighting it. Back then, a match was required to ignite the fire, unlike today’s automatic systems. The Light in the Darkness During the 1970s, power cuts were a frequent occurrence under the Labour government of the time. We always kept candles stored under the kitchen sink in preparation for these outages. One night, my sister Jane was in her bedroom, a smaller room located in the attic. Dad had previously removed an old-fashioned lock from her door, as it had become unreliable. Once removed, it left a large hole in the door that offered a view of the attic landing and hallway. Jane had just got into bed when the electricity went out, plunging her into complete darkness as she lay adjacent to the doorway with its gaping hole. After some time, she noticed a faint light ascending the stairwell, growing brighter as it approached the attic landing and her room. Hoping it was one of our parents coming up with a lit candle to check on the children, Jane called out. However, there was no reply. The light grew clearer, visible through the hole in the door. Overcome with fear, she jumped out of bed, her heart pounding as adrenaline surged through her trembling body. With her eyes tightly shut, she sprinted down the landing to the bottom of the hallway and into Cora’s bedroom, where the commotion had already alerted her. Jane screamed as she entered the room and dived into her sister’s bed, mumbling and sobbing uncontrollably. Both were now too terrified to move. They lay still all night, blankets pulled tightly up to their faces, waiting anxiously for daylight to arrive. The next morning, they recounted the incident to our parents. However, neither of them, nor any of our siblings, had been responsible for the light. It could only have been the restless dead, roaming the hallways with their ghostly candle lighting the way. Perhaps it was the “old Edwardian lady” rumoured to haunt the house, retracing the steps she had walked countless times before, her presence now etched into the history of the home as she checked on her own children who had once occupied the attic rooms. Reaching a Breaking Point Every day, the house seemed to grow more oppressive and ominous, its weight becoming almost unbearable. The constant sensation of being watched and the overwhelming fear of harm were ever-present. It felt as though the rooms were filled with unseen, malevolent strangers whose presence, though invisible, was palpably threatening. My mother endured so much, her fear escalating to the point where she could no longer remain inside alone. She would often sit outside on the steps or in the back garden, but never within the house—not anymore. She began witnessing increasingly unexplainable phenomena, and it became too much to bear. She discussed with my father the possibility of selling the house, desperate to escape and ensure her children’s safety. She tried valiantly to hold herself together for the sake of our family, determined not to alarm us with the terrifying events she now encountered daily. Brave and selfless, she always prioritized her family, but the strain had pushed her to her limit. She could no longer endure living in a home that instilled such relentless fear. With nowhere else to turn, she had even sought help from the church, only to be dismissed by those expected to offer support. Talking about such things invited ridicule—society still struggles to comprehend the supernatural, even today. Final Chapter In her desperation, she sought assistance from two local psychics, a married couple. One evening, they came to the house to spend the night, while we stayed at my nan’s house. The next morning, the psychics arrived at my nan’s home to share their findings with my parents. They reassured us that the house had been cleansed of all spirits. They claimed to have guided the restless souls into the light, granting them eternal peace. According to them, the house was now bathed in sunshine, its oppressive atmosphere lifted. When we returned to the house, we felt a mix of scepticism and hope, cautiously optimistic about their claims. Sadly it was not to be. We ultimately sold the house to a Consultant Cardiologist, a surgeon employed at the nearby Queen Elizabeth Hospital. In their urgency to part with the property, my parents relinquished it at a significant financial loss, resulting in a monetary setback from which our family would never fully recover. At certain moments, as we pass by the house, I cannot help but be captivated by its vast glass windows. These mirrored panes reflect and replicate the outlines of neighbouring houses, shrouding any mysteries that might lie hidden behind their polished exterior. However, in that fleeting instant, I am gripped by an unsettling and persistent feeling that an invisible presence is silently observing me in return. 26th Aug 2025